A Travellerspoint blog

Aug 2006

yes, I am still alive

overcast 26 °C

but I work a lot so there really isn't all that much to tell since it is pretty much same old, same old ...

Maybe I should give you all an idea of what my routine week looks like here.
• Monday I work in Funky from 8-16h and than it is the night off. I either go home or nap for an hour or so. If we want to have dinner together at home than I will usually go to the supermarket and buy some food. He will get off work around 6pm and than we spend the evening together. Usually we go out for drinks at night and meet friends.
• Tuesday he goes and visits his son and parents during the day while I work. At night he works and I tend to get a shift at Flor.
• Wednesday pretty much the same as Tuesday
• Thursday I only work in Funky and he has his day off and when he returns from seeing his son we spend time together. At night we go out dancing and meet up with friends.
• Friday I tend to take off and we try to do stuff together until he has to start work at 6pm and I sometimes also get a shift after 6pm at Flor.
• Saturday is normally my day off and I visit the market and buy fresh vegetables and fruit etc. do laundry, do house cleaning etc. At night when he is off work we spend time together and go out and meet friends.
• Sunday we both work double shifts and are really tired by the time we are both in bed.
For those of you who are interested in my working hours Funky are like either 7-8 hours and at Flor it is 5-7 hours. Since I do double shifts on 3 days during the week normally I am pretty tired afterwards as it might be understandable but it means that I am able to not touch my savings at home so frequently.

The last weeks are just flying by even more than usually. Last week Thursday we had a party at our place. It was good fun. After that the whole group of about 10 people went to La Chimera to dance. Buena Vista Social Club was performing there that night and the fee was 20Q to get in for standards here that is expensive but the music was really great and we all had a lot of fun. Some of us had pretty bad hang overs the next day o,)))

The week before it was the birthday off a girl from the house and we got invited as well. We know the people from the house better ... it was also good fun but at our place it is more fun!

Yesterday we had friends over for drinks and it got rather late so today I feel slightly spaced out but that isn't too bad I guess. I mean there is always tomorrow and today will take care of itself. I life here a lot more than back home. I will nap between shifts since with the weather being what it is – high humidity and it just makes everyone tired!

HOME, GUYS YOU CAN JOT DOWN IN YOR AGENDAS I WILL BE BACK IN GERMANY 12. OCTOBER 2006 AND I'LL BE ON MY GERMAN MOBILE THAN AGAIN AND PARTLY ON MY DUTCH ONE!!!

The low season is here and work is very boring but than again it suits me fine in some ways. As for Funky Monkey it is fine because I have to research a lot of things and find out things. As for Flor I don't mind that I don't have to run so much otherwise I would be even more tired at night and just fall into bed.

Our wedding plans are proceeding well and it looks as if things will be sorted out quicker than expected if my side is done and dusted when I return end of October. To get all the information that I needed I had to correspond with the German embassies in Amsterdam, Guatemala City and Bogota and they are all very helpful and efficient! I have now also learnt a lot more about the international law when international documents are involved 0,))

Posted by Sunshine12 11:09 AM Archived in Guatemala Comments (0)

first week as morning girl

sunny 30 °C

in Funky Monkey! I had my alarm going of at around 7.20am and it was tough going to get out of bed. Once I was in Funky with my very own set of keys and had it all started up. I had of course my first customers. It was an easy day but I was tired and had to run errands after work. I bumped once again into Torkel who I hadn't seen in ages and he has lost a lot of weight but says must be because he was sick. Oh yeah, if you want to loose weight just get an amoeba or something and you'll drop pounds quickly o,))) I was so ready to go home after shopping and go to bed for a bit and than we would go out at night. Instead I got home and I needed more fresh water and popped by Rosa’s. Eric and his buddy (both from Belgium) and Elisabeth were cooking in the kitchen and we started chatting. They invited me spontaneously for dinner since they said that they had cooked more than they could eat anyway. It was a fun conversation since they live close to the German border so we were chatting in German and in English since their Spanish is non-existent. Elisabeth is from the States and it is either Spanish or English with her. One of the girls who lives in the house will have her birthday this Thursday and Elisabeth wants to give her a surprise party. We all checked our working schedules and agreed that we could do it Thursday. Elmer had asked me earlier if we could go for a swim since it is unbelievable hot here. I said sorry love because now that I work day shift I only get off at 4pm. I asked Cesar anyway if I could have Thursday off and work a Saturday or Sunday morning instead. He is like okay you work for me Sunday morning and you are off on Thursday. At the moment it is only Marcela who pulls 3 shifts, me who is pulling 5 shifts and than Cesar. He would have gotten stuck otherwise with a double shift for Sunday and was only more than happy to swap me for it. If we all hate something than it is called doing double shifts! Lea is no longer working here if it is because she quit or Cesar fired her I am not to clear on. I think she has got enough problems on her plate as it is and it started colliding too much with her work. I mean if you don't show up or get a replacement for your shift no wonder the boss is mad at you. I would be to and closing the business earlier than necessary etc. doesn't exactly get you brownie points either. Oh well, it isn't my problem! Lea knows though if she wants to talk to someone or so that she can call me which she hasn't done yet and I still have her wash in my place waiting for her to be picked up. Back to Monday> Elmer joined us after we had finished our dinner and by now I was so tired and cranky that all I wanted was to sleep. He headed off for a shower and I was lying lazy around. I couldn't be asked to do anything. He was like I am hungry lets go out. I wasn't really up to it but in the end we went out. It is currently Feria in Jocotenango and we heard the fireworks even if we didn't see them. It meant more people out than usual. We went to Rickie's and met some friends there. It was a fun evening except Fernando and Elmer were happy drunk and together they are impossible. We girls were just sitting there thinking please just finish your drinks we want to go to bed and sleep.

When the alarm went off on Tuesday I was like oh no this is way too early. I was so tired and no people in Funky didn't help waking up. I went home during my lunch break and napped for 3 minutes and felt so much better. Elmer had told me that it is a holiday in Guatemala City and therefore Antigua was really full and cars parked everywhere. I knew what that would mean for the work in Cafe Flor more people than usual ... I got home after 4pm and had to be at work at Flor for 6pm. I wanted to sleep but that never happened instead I watched TV and Elmer showed up and we chatted a bit before we were both off to work. At Flor I was in for a surprise since one of the fridges had really broken down and the new girl didn't know what to do when etc. I had to do all the jobs that usually the lunch hour shift does. The cooks than told me like 6.50pm oh by the way we will have 20 people here at 7pm they made a reservation! Oh yes and what a big group that was and we had the other tables to wait on to. I can't remember the last time we ha to run so much. At least this time it wasn't for nothing since the big group left us about 200Q in tips. In that regard it was a good night and we all got out early like 10.30pm and that was great. Judith and I have finally worked out a routine and she will be leaving next week no fun! Judith and me went for a drink in Monoloco and surprise, surprise it was even fuller than normally. We had one drink and watched people go by and than called it a night around 11pm. I went home and thought oh I'll just prepare the stuff for tomorrow morning and than later on I'll watch for 30minuetes a bit of TV to unwind. Wrong! I was gone in like two minutes and TV was still on when he got home and went hola. I was semi awake and gone again in a second.

This morning he had to get up before me because Monoloco had an event planned. The crew would go visit some poor kids and bring them breakfast and dress up as clowns etc. I wonder if the kids enjoyed it and he too. I was up earlier than usual therefore and watched a bit TV while getting ready. Today I am not very tired but I'll go home for a nap anyway since I got to work tonight in Flor again. However, I will have tomorrow off and that will be fun.

Posted by Sunshine12 7:47 AM Archived in Guatemala Comments (0)

how was that again

sunny 29 °C

time flies when you have fun? Well, it certainly is flying for me because I am busy and working a lot here.

I got offered a job with all the good things that go with it but no contract since I don't have a work permit and all. I discussed it with Elmer if I should accept it at all or rather not to have more time together. I am getting better and not making decision all by myself o,))) However we have worked out that it would be good for the finances and I will just not work 3 nights in Flor and than we still have time together. The thing is that our work hours cross over and that would mean that for certain days we would only see each other in the mornings briefly and when he comes home around 1.30am. Sometimes I might be awake and sometimes awake enough to hold a conversation and at others you won’t get more out of me than a mumbled hello and I go back to sleep. As of next week 14. August I will be working in Funky Monkey from 08.00-16.00h during the week and if anyone feels like having a chat with me during that time the landline is 00502-78324216. Some of you know that the connection is really good - a lot better than when trying to get a hold of me on my cell phone. Let’s see if I like that job in combo with working in Flor!

I called Delta in the mean time to get my flight changed for after my birthday. They told me no problem to get me out to JFK on the 4. October but onwards the earliest day something is available would be mid October. I asked them if they are overbooked if they can bump me up to First class and I got told, no that isn't possible since first class doesn't exist on that flight. Now I am on a waiting list for 4 different days. I wonder if they can manage to get me on a business class flight since they were like no problem to get me out in economy. Do I look as if I would accept that? Real funny! I have to wait about another 3 weeks until they will be able to tell me if I can fly on any of the requested dates or not. Sorry, Mandy you will have to wait and keep your fingers crossed that I can come by and visit. I hope that by than all the things are back to normal in air travel since right now things are so different and difficult due to the London terrorists.

The weather here is once again hot, hot and hot and even at night it hardly cools down. Right now we haven't had rain in ages. In a way it would be a relief if it would rain once again. We usually have like a sheet, a warmer sheet, a blanket and a day cover, right now we sleep with only the first two and it still happens that during the night we kick them off. The good thing is that last night not all the wash was dry so we spread it in the room and it smelled really good and this morning everything was dry.

I was supposed to work double yesterday and today but I swapped a shift away and it worked out better that way. Marcela, Chad, Elmer and I went out for dinner and wanted to go dancing afterwards but Sin Ventura was a sauna and way too many people to even be partly fun. We were out of there in a flash. Elmer and me called it an early night around midnight and went home. We went straight to bed since our alarms went off very early this morning. I started at 9am and he at 10am the only difference is that he has a break to go home and freshen up while I go from one job to another but I might be home earlier than he is with some luck. Tomorrow the first day that I have to be in at 8am.
Yesterday was a disaster here with the keys for Funky. I had called Cesar Friday and asked for keys to Funky. He started swearing since they were not where they were supposed to be. Instead he was like don’t worry about it I will open up for you in the morning. Elmer wasn’t given the key at night by Lea either. So I tried calling Cesar and lea but to no avail. I ended up with a 3 hour “break” since I couldn’t unlock the door and open up the business. I sat in the sun and had breakfast and lunch and read a book so in that regard it was a very relaxed day for me. Today to my surprise Cesar showed up right after I had opened up. He wasn’t mad at me for yesterday since I did my job and I have a life and if I can’t get a hold of him I have to close the business down. I had to do laundry and Lea than called. She told me that Abbie begged her to work for her if not for Cesar. I ended up going to Monoloco and drop of the key and she opened sometime in the late afternoon. The result was that Cesar offered me to work as a back-up being more responsible and as a result he offered to kick up my salary from 1.500Q to 2.000Q which would of course be a great help since the rent is 2.500Q!

This Monday I went to visit Ema in Jocotenango and it was nice to be back there. She is like my measure if my Spanish is improving or not since I am more able to speak to her from each time. She is complementing me on it and it is true we laugh even more now ... I think I was three like for over 2 hours for a chat. She has a full house right now with four students but some will be leaving soon. I love going to the hairdresser there so I got my points cut once again for 15Q. Here in Antigua I would have to pay like minimum 4x as much for a simple hair cut which is ridiculous to me.

I finally got rid of my cold after I had lost my voice for almost 2 days. I went to the good pharmacy. What I mean is that the man that works there is old and he knows his stuff while some of the others will only put a row of medicine in front of you and go you chose what you think you need. The best of course is if you know what you need than all you have to do is find the cheapest place to buy your product. I described my symptoms and he came back with a medicine that I recognized straight away. It was Prospan but of course under a different name here. I also bought some pills for my throat since I needed a voice. Elmer was making fun of me at night saying I had to shut up since I couldn't even whisper and be understood. He had to do all the talking o,))

This week Thursday (10-8) we went to Autosafari Chapin. We took a bus to Esquintla and didn't have to wait too long for the connecting bus to leave. It was getting hotter and hotter the closer we got to our destination. We were soaked in sweat in no time. I was reminded of Florida with its humidity. We did the Autosafari part first. It was fun sitting as the only passengers in that bus and being driven through the terrain. Afterwards Elmer was like I need food, I only wanted a drink. The food was so greasy that it made me not wanting to eat anything. After our lunch break we walked around the zoo part and had lots of fun there and also on the pond with different islands for the monkeys and iguanas. We were about done with everything around 4pm and a thunderstorm was building up. We were feeling the first drops and I was just thinking please bus show up soon otherwise even the umbrella wouldn't have helped since it is like someone pours a bucket over you. We saw more people from the park running to the street. We were like hey a bus must be coming shortly since they work there and must know the timetable. We got on the bus and the next thing was a major thunderstorm and rain and hail. We changed buses in Esquintla. I was so tired but couldn't sleep in the bus. At home we dashed for a shower, fresh clothes and I only wanted to lie on the bed for a second but was gone. I woke up over an hour later and Elmer was watching TV. Now my stomach was rumbling and I didn’t care where we had food as long as it would be asap. I was cold and it went black in front of my eyes since there were no calories to burn so to speak. We sat in the restaurant but since I was walking at a snails pace and all he was mad at me. Little him gets in a sulky mood and is like I don't want to talk right now. Usually it doesn't last very long and all. This time though I was in no mood myself to deal with it so was like fine see you around I am leaving. I got up and left. I needed some time to cool off and got myself some food. I called him and than we had a brief conversation which resolved nothing. I went to visit Marcela in Funky and afterwards I went to visit Judith in Flor since I wanted to swap a shift. I was so mad and the girls were like don't worry he'll cool off eventually. I was like if he thinks I am going home and all wrong let’s have a drink and later I am going dancing. Anne way just laughing since she has it also often with Randy but the difference is that he looks for her and she never really gets to do what she wants. I knew that Elmer wouldn’t be looking for me but he tried calling me a couple of times. Although he didn’t want to talk to me o,))) We both are no good with being mad at each other we just end up being miserable. In the and he was in La Sala also and really mad at me that I was out having fun. I was I told you all I needed was food and I had that so now I am having fun and you won't ruin my evening out. He sulked all night long but by the next morning he was I am really sorry about last night. The funny thing is that I really love his temper and since I have got one here to match his … and we are both stubborn ... makes every now and than for interesting days and evenings o,)))

So that is what has been happening since the last entry. The house and all the paper work has kept me running around as well lately since more things had to be printed out etc. mailed, faxed, scanned etc. such a pain in the … but has to be done.

Posted by Sunshine12 8:05 AM Archived in Guatemala Comments (0)

playing once again catch up

overcast 24 °C

Elmer had to play soccer that Thursday and we got very late to Lago since the chicken bus takes forever. Was nice to hear your voice though Sweety even if the connection wasn't all that great in the end. We had some guy in the bus that was talking on and on very annoying but he only shut up after 30 minutes and looked for another audience. I got to meet more of his family once we had made it to the town. By car it would have been like 40 minutes with the chicken buses it took us 1.5 hours. His aunt, cousins and all the kids that were running around were very nice and friendly. They were making lots of jokes but I got most of it. His grandmother is lovely. He was looking forward to this visit forever since it meant for him fresh fish. I wasn't too impressed with the fish since it was whole and I had to work my way into the fish which those of you who know me well know how disgusting that is for me. It was therefore slow going for me and I was given two little one’s! Elmer watched me for a while and than said it looks as if I take forever and swaped our plates. I ended up with a bigger fish but I really didn’t like that taste so in the end it was take away for some parts of the family. We got as a gift tamales. I was told that is a very normal dish for birthdays, Christmas etc. It is like potato puree, tomato sauce and a chicken leg wrapped in palm leaves, tied up and cooked in hot water. I was given as a present a tortilla towel which we use to keep our pancakes hot o,))) I feel very much at home with his family. Elmer told me later that I also made a good impression and that his cousins were envious of my figure o,))) It was a nice day and we went back to Antigua with his parents and his little brother. I was beat and so was he and we called it an earl night at 11pm.

The temperature here is dropping extremely at night and I was cold for some nights and by now I think that what I have is a cold. I got home one night and went to bed in my thermal underwear and was still shivering. Oh well, that will pass as well but that means at the moment I sleep a lot and don't do much except work. Today e.g. the sun light hurt my eyes. I was in deep sleep still around 10.30h and didn’t hear Rosa coming in the house. Of course, she called out for me before hand but I was gone and once she saw that I was still sleeping she left again. Usually we bar the door from the inside as well but Elmer had left very early for his reunion.

Today Rosa's husband fixed our windows which is great but it was at a time when I was so ready for my nap ... and no chance for that. I was like oh great than I can at least get to bed early tonight. I walk into Funky and who sits there. Alex. Of course I promised to go with him tonight for a drink since he is leaving soon to Chile and you never know when someone has time and it is always like manana something else might come up etc.

Being Melissa's last week we girls started out with a lunch in the market and had some really good food. Elmer was just looking at us the other night when we made the date that we were both out of our minds to be eating there since we would be sick afterwards. I don't eat from the street vendors but market is different and where else can you have a meal for that price. Melissa and I went shopping afterwards and I bought a nice thick sweater in the market for 90Q and saw one for inferior quality for 210Q in a store. I also bought a blouse for work since at night working in a T-Shirt tends to get a bit cold. I will be looking though for a nice looking sweater trying to find a female long sleeve that doesn't say Army Girl or something like that which really isn't my style I am kind of out of luck. I guess I will have to go clothes hunting once again. I say some nice boots as well and after checking with Marcela what good brands here are I think that I will buy them although for the standard here they cost a fortune like a weeks' wage.

Spoke to Ema last week and will have to come by for a chat soon but no mail has arrived for either me or Chelsea. I am now here longer than 4 months and nothing which is kind of frustrating to think about.

Last week Saturday I worked a double first Funky and than Flor and this week same thing but at least I had a day off so that is okay. I get along fine with Cesar although the whole world tells me he can be such an ass. I think I understand him because part of it is a front he uses when dealing with certain people but he is different with people he likes and respects. I can see things in him that I respect and I think that is mutual we don't have to love each other since he is only my boss just get along. The one's that stick together here are Marcela, Lea and I. Cesar and I both had a good chat today and are trying to gauge each other. Funky still has to pay my wages but it looks as if all the new parts are more costly and we have to wait to get paid. It is doing okay but not fab! I am not worried about my job though since there are more possibilities here …

Posted by Sunshine12 6:51 PM Archived in Guatemala Comments (0)

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